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Please help me understand this relationship/breakup

Q.   We went out for 5 weeks straight. It was steady and consistent. He acted like we were together. He told me he was "falling" for me. He said things like, "I'm glad I found you." Things were so good that I never wondered where we stood or how he felt ...

A.   5 April 2011: Hello You need to understand yourself first, then understand him. Only then will you be able to understand the relationship. I do agree that you have to formulate an apology and you should try "the Clean Slate Method" from a href="http://www... (read in full...)

B/f wants to have sex without a condom

Q.   im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...

A.   5 April 2011: DO NOT HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM! Get tested before you do that! Both of you! There's nothing more to it here. No further advice needed, even if he were God Himself. ... (read in full...)

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

Q.   should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it...

A.   2 April 2011: Hello. I agree with moon river on this one. I really don't think that trying to end that relationship is going to take you anywhere except down a path of obsession and hate. I guess the best thing that you can do is sit down with your wife and have ... (read in full...)

My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years.

Q.   My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years. Why not? he's the one who left me. i miss him so much. well he said hi a few times a few years ago, but i think he was made to. but he still looks at me (we attend the same church) i dont get w...

A.   26 March 2011: Hello miss May I ask you if you're still in love with him? Though it seems that you broke up for a reason that isn't explicit here, there may be a reason, or reasons why he's doing this. You can give him a bit of that bitter treatment too, mayb... (read in full...)

I spent a year getting over my ex-bf...and now he wants me back! What should I do?

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I were together for 20 months. He was my first long-relationship. When we broke up he told me that he had been cheating on me and was bored of us. After our breakup him and the girl he cheated on me with got together and they ...

A.   26 March 2011: You should be a bit careful about that, and think very carefully before you decide upon anything. Don't say yes yet and don't fall into his arms because it might just turn out worse than the first time. Here's a link to some advice that you can foll... (read in full...)

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