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anonymous
writes:I split with my ex just over two years ago. I still think of her and I sent her a message just before xmas a couple of months back and she replied the same day telling me she wasn't so good and that she started a new job and didn't feel herself and asked how I was. I replied saying that I hope she will be able to get away over the holidays and be able to forget her problems, I just said I was alright and kept it short, she never sent another message. Maybe I was just too short with her?! I saw a friend of hers this evening and he told me that he went back with her one night and all she talked about was me and he said that she was so in love with me. This made me feel very sad this evening because she was everything to me too. To cut it short we split up because she was taking drugs and I couldn't cope with her mood changes. I started to not know what was real etc. She also told my friend a couple of years back after we split that I was the wrong person for her and she was the wrong person for me. I kind of give up when I heard that. But after tonight with what her friend said I'm not sure if I should contact her or not? I still have her contact details. Once in a while I walk past the building where she works because I just feel a need to go there I walk past and do nothing else it's just a hope to see her. I have to go by there to get to the train station. What should I do? I'm not sure if to tell her that I always loved her or to try another approach ? :( x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): I agree with the others: If she's still using all bets are off unless you're prepared to participate in her recovery.
I believe there could be a good reason you're still thinking of each other have such a long time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): You both have feelings for each other despite the years.
Have courage, ring her..or write to her..let her know how you feel and arrange to meet, you clearly love her.
But the relationship will not work..if she has not cleaned up her act, its the reason why you split.
She needs help..maybe with your love and support has a friend first..could be life changing for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): I don't see any harm in say, asking her for a coffee, to catch up, make it casual.Seems you both have feelings still and maybe back then it was just right person,wrong time.Don't get your hopes up too much but at the same time its worth seeing if there may be a chance.
However if drugs were the problem then she has to have that sorted for any new beginings to even be contemplated,or your back to square one.
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