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writes: Hi There,I am not sure if I am overreacting or if I have every right to be suspicious. My boyfriend of a 1 1/2 years is the best thing that has ever happened to me I love him dearly and vice versa, the only problem is his female friend. She to now has a boyfriend but their relationship is not that great. I know they have slept together a few times in the past before me and my boyfriend got together as he has told me this, but she rings him nearly every weekend to see what hes up to and what hes doing. She often rings late at night whens shes drunk asking him whats he doing. I am not the jealous type but I am have said to my boyfriend what is going on here why does she keep phoning you and he insists that they are just friends, I trust my boyfriend very much but I do not trust this girl and feel that if a man is getting it handed to him on a plate he will take it. Is it possible that they could be just good friends??????
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reader, Smiler +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well i have to say you sound just like me because i would be tripping now to if she rang him all hours when she'd had a drink etc, i think if i were in your situation here i would sit down with my man and explain to him that he has to put this "friend" straight like you say they do have a past and i agree with you if its handed on a plate you are not gonna get many guys refuse not all guys are the same don't get me wrong and you say you trust your man, if he loves you as much as he claims to then he will put this other girl straight tell her she is crossing the line you have the right to be feeling the way your feeling i would to so just talk to your man about it and i'm sure he will sort things out :-)
I hope my advise helped you ut a little sweetie Good luck, if you ever need a mate to talk to or just some more advise don't hesitate to email me i'm always here for you ok... would like to hear from you again let me know how you get on ok..
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): Well personally if it was me I wouldn't like it either. You can't choose your boyfriends friends, but then again they do have a past together. Why don't you arrange for you all to go out together including her boyfriend. Then you could get to know her a little better and see whether she does have a hidden agenda. Best of luck.
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