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writes:Right, got a bit of a big problem. I've been with my bf for over a year now and we still haven't had sex. I'm a virgin, but he has done it quite a few times with his ex. When they went out, they had sex after about half a year, so why is he so reluctant to do it with me? He says he's keen, and acts like he is, but nothing ever happens. I told his friends so that they could convince him to do it, but he fell out with me for speaking to them about it. I really want to prove how much I love him, and for him to prove that I mean more to him than his ex. Please tell me what to do/say to make things all work out!
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (15 March 2011):
 It's possible he's still not over his ex and that he felt sex complicated things and everything seemed to go downhill after that. Your private lives is none of his friends business. He felt betrayed, ashamed and embarrassed because his friends could be making fun of him behind his back. You prove to him you love him by not pressuring him, by accepting that his decisions of waiting is good, and by trusting that he loves you and is attracted to you. If it doesn't work out then maybe you aren't with each other for the right reasons.
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