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writes:Sometimes when my bf and I have sex, he throws a blanket over my head (this is usually in the doggy-style position) Is it that he wants to fantize about someone else and not me? (porn was on.....and one time he had a torn pic from porn mag) When I saw the pic, my high from the orgasm was suddenly ruined!! And the other night when I gave him BJ I looked at him and his face was covered!! Is that just normal male behavior and I have nothing to worry about? Or is he really wanting to be with other women, and I am just a turn-off?I am very sensitive, and sometimes I worry when there is nothing to worry about. I look forward to your comments! Thanks.*Moderator Note: please give informative helpful advice and don't start another debate here. Thank you.*
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reader, love-him  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 talk to him n ask if there is something you are doing wrong, maybe he is just shy? talk about it and if he doesnt give you a good enough reason, let him go, your worth more, hope i helped x x x
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reader, Bling  +, writes (24 April 2007):
He his a Strange guy maybe he don`t like to look in a girl face when he is having sex. I think he is immature, get rid of the wimp. You need to get a real man to look in your face while having sex.
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reader, Keria +, writes (20 April 2007):
You definitely need to talk to him. The first thing I thought was that maybe he wanted to do some kind of bondage thing, like blindfolding you. There's nothing wrong with that. But if he can't keep his mind on YOU, then there's something wrong. Occasional shared fantasy is fine... but if he's just using to you get himself off, with no consideration of YOU, then that's a problem.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 April 2007):
 I definitely think you need to sit down and discuss this with him. He needs to know that this bedroom behavior is distressing to you. He will knock it off if he cares for you and wants to please you. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): As a male I don't beleive that this is normal. It sounds like he's a porn addict. One of my friends was so addicted to porn so much that he had to visuale things during sex to reach an orgasm. He stoped for one year and it has mostly gone away and doesn't need imaginary stimuli. If he's a porn addict you have to start helping him. It's very very tough.. if he's worth it go for it .. if not .. well ..
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