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writes:My boyfriend allwase gets in fights around me i dont know why but i think that he is defending me what if he is just showing off to me? Well i dont know because i didnt ask him and i dont have the guts to ask him. Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Well does he get into fights over arguments about you? He wouldn't be defending you if nobody was trying to hurt you. If someone says something bad about you or tries to hurt you then he's defending you. But if it's a small argument blown out of proportion then maybe he's just baulchy.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Tell him that the only thing he is showing off is his ability to act like a meat head.
It is not impressive, does not get anyone anywhere, and he looks like an idiot with no control of his emotions or communication skills.
Maybe he will re think when it is pointed out to him what other people think of this sort of behaviour and him for indlging in it.
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reader, Agony Auntie Smiles +, writes (2 April 2010):
 If you act as if you are impressed with his stupid, violent and dangerous behaviour he might be showing off. Do you really think you need protecting? Are you living in a war zone?
What sort of relationship are you in? You can't ask him why he behaves in this ridiculous manner - that is really unhealthy. What are you going to do when he fights with someone who has a thin skull and he causes some real damage? Put yourself in the position of the mothers whose sons you boyfriend is fighting with. When he goes too far are you going to tell them that your boyfriend was protecting you or showing off to you and that is why their son is in hospital?
You really need to get a grip and your boyfriend needs help with his mad behaviour. This relationship will end in disaster.
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