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My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere or do anything with me

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Question - (30 May 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2015)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone I be been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years we used to every thing together and we always found something to do together. But now we do nothing at all. I always have to do things by myself because he never wants to leave this house unless its to go see his friends and family or go to work. I don't know what to do anymore. Half of the time he never likes what I wanna do or he's ditching me for his friends or mom. Everything I suggest we do he never wants to or feels like doing. But anything his mom or friends want to do he's all up for it no matter what it is. I even tell him to find something that we can do he always says there's nothing to do or he can't think of nothing. I'm so tired of always sitting at home or having to do things by myself. Any suggestions?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (31 May 2015):

Honeypie agony auntIt does sounds like you two have grown apart. Like he wants to end it, but doesn't have the nuts to break up.

And I agree with Code Warrior, why aren't you invited to tag along with him & his friends? Or go see his mom?

Personally, I'd either end it, or start doing thing with your friends, see if that gets him interested in ASKING YOU what you want to do.

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A male reader, Code Warrior United States + , writes (31 May 2015):

Code Warrior agony auntIt could well be that the relationship has run its course, but it sounds like you still want it to continue. If he's not trying to do things with you is there some reason you can't go with him to do the things with his friends and his mom? I don't mean to sound like you should always just do the things he wants to do, I'm just saying that if you want the relationship to continue, you will need to learn if he even wants you to come along at all. If he says that he doesn't want you to come along with him when he goes to visit his mother or goes out with his friends, and he never agrees to anything you suggest doing together, then I think he's just hanging on to the relationship for the sex and you need to break up with him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2015):

Sounds like you don't have much in common. Have you been together long? Maybe time to find someone new ... ?

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