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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 December 2008):
You got very lucky.
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reader, 3dg13  +, writes (3 December 2008):
3dg13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question THank you to everyone. I have stayed together with him and we have fixed him. He now realizes that he was just going through a phase just like god wa nted me to do i explained to him what i think and to maybe ask for help and i explained what god wanted him to do. THis may seem wierd to anti christs or whatever but it helped. We are still h aving some dilemmas but we are all good! :) we fixed them all
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 November 2008):
 His behavior "posession" and such could be his attempt to understand. People with bi-polar have difficulty understanding where their behaviors come from. They switch from depression to mania, which those levels are different deptending on the person.
Mental health and religion use to be a "combined" art for treatment. It was believed that abnormal behaviors were demons, which created the phrase "personal demons."
Breaking up with him, I'd still recommend to be careful in doing so. He could take it well, or not. I would tread lightly because of that not knowing.
You might feel bad about breaking up, it's normal but shouldn't keep you with someone to avoid that feeling. You're still in charge of your life, and no one who you don't want a relationship with has a right to go against what you want.
I hope this helps you. Thanks for the email. Contact me if you need anything else. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): i agree Emily he needs serious help what if he looses control you could get seriously injured
could you talk to his parents or anohter family member you should let your parents know to, A x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Stay N help him, if u really love him.in Love we dont leave our loved ones in any conditions
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
It might make his angry but it also may be the thing that makes him seek help.
As I said, you are only one girl. You are not a psychologist and you can't diagnose him.
Why not tell his parents about your worries before you split up with him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, 3dg13 +, writes (15 November 2008):
3dg13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwouldnt breaking up with him make his mental problems worse? I love him very mush this is my dilemma
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reader, 3dg13 +, writes (15 November 2008):
3dg13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut me breaking up with him wouldnt that make his mental problems worse? I relly love him and i dont know y all of a sudden he is like this. He told me he may be bipolar... Would that have anything to do with it?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
Being a Christian doesn't have anything to do with it sweetie. You are a teenage girl and the only way you can help him is by getting an adult to help him.
You are putting yourself in danger and for what??
It seems you are trapped and he is control here. How is that helping him?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, 3dg13 +, writes (15 November 2008):
3dg13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i forgot to mention that im a christian and he is also with me so i can help him and i love him to he didnt always used to be like this. Should i stay and help him or should i leave him and just be friends?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
He sounds like he might actually be developing mental problems. Give him back the earings and break up with him. Make sure you have a friend with you (or within a few yards) when you do it in case he goes crazy.
If he gets any worse I think you should tell his parents or a teacher.
It's not worth gambling your safety because you feel bad about some earings and the fact he shouts at you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Is he really really being serious? If so then he does sound a bit dodgy, I personally wouldn't want to get involved, especially if I was as young as 13! It's not worth being in a relationship just to keep the other happy if you're not at all happy yourself. He said you would still be friends, if he changes his mind then he can't care for you all that much anyway, otherwise he would want what is best.
If he truly believes he is a satanist then he would probably rather be with another satanist anyway! (Although he should not believe in that shit!)
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