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writes:My boyfriend wants to move to another state. He hasn't even considered me into the factor. He said the only thing on his mind right now is making money fast. Everytime I try to bring our relationship and what will happen to it when he moves he doesn't say anything. I don't understand him. Everytime we get into a heated discussion he never answers my questions or try to communicate to fix the problem. He always stays slient and never trys to fix anything by talking. He thinks that if we don't talk about it, it will magically be fixed or I will forget about it in time. Do you think he even cares about me? Should I just move on and forget him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): Hi,
I agree with the first reply response. If he doesn't consider you, then don't consider him. Don't play mind games at all, if he chooses not to communicate with you or answer you then don't even bother talking to him. One, he could be testing your feelings, or the other is, he is just not that into you. Don't let this distract you from having your life, besides, you can focus on things that can help you achieve in your own success. Over time, you will see, if he misses talking to you or not. If he does then you know that he was being a jerk, if he doesn't, then at least you know that you have invested time in yourself and that not much was lost. The worst of the worst is that both of you don't make it through together. If that happens, at least on the bright side, you have yourself and things that you have done for yourself. Don't settle for someone who doesn't want to settle for you. This doesn't mean that you should break up, just observe it, an give it some time...let it wait out and then you will know. In the meanwhile, do things for yourself!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Doesn't sound like much of relationship, I'd move on if I were you and see if you can find someone who is really into you.
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