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anonymous
writes:I have this boyfriend who is always eyeing woman... he has posters and wallpapers and always rubbernecks anywhere. He's mentioned "I don't need any restrictions." And I'm sitting here feeling even lower then I do because I know I don't look like those girls he always looks at. But he tends to reassure me that "I'm soo beautiful." I even tried to give him a picture of me and he never wants to look at them like he does the other pictures.....in fact, he deletes them. Should I be worried that he might cheat or am I being jealous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011): If he deletes your pictures then I think you should delete him, permanently, out of your life. He is not respecting you at all with his behaviour. A decent guy loves photos of you, even the "bad" ones. As to him constantly looking at other women - the guy has no manners, for one thing, and seems very sexist, for another. I say dump him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 October 2011):
 If it bothers you, then you should end it. He's not going to change and there ARE men out there that don't look at women like that.
My boyfriend looks at porn stars. He looks at models and women on the street.. and he COMMENTS on them to me... points out their clothes and shoes and hair... and gets his lovely appetite and comes home and loves on me....
He's "married" not dead....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2011):
Maybe you just shouldn't be with a guy like this. It's clear that at the very least he has little respect for you - it's not like he cares for your feelings or looks at your pictures. If he needs all these posters and wallpapers, then he probably has a pretty warped view of women.
He's making you unhappy, and it's clear he won't change. So either you'll have to come to terms with who he is, or (as I think), you should just leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011): He's an asshole, dump him. I don't buy that sh¡t that women should accept the fact that men looking at porn (or models) is a normal habit, IT'S NOT NORMAL. It's degrading and insulting, it makes us feel horrible.
He could be looking at you and having sex with a woman that LOVES him, but he obviously doesn't care.
Find a man that truly loves and respects you!
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