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writes: every time i have sex with my boyfriend he wants another guy joing us either doing me or him. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): I have been wanting to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another guy! He would rather have one with another woman, but I get way to jealous at the thought of him being turned on by another girl. I think it would be so sexy to have two guys fawning all over you and satisfying your needs. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): He's obviously bisexual. The question is simple...can you deal with that? If not, get out while you can. I worked in a gay bar for years and you'd be shocked to know how many married men would come to the club cruising for guys behind their wives backs. You can't change a persons sexuality, and if you try...you may end up with some nasty diseases.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): Be careful he could be bisexual, not only that is it a particular guy that he wants a threesome with? You never know maybe he is having a relationship with him too. Whatever the scenario if you're not comfortable with it then don't do it. Find a man who treats you with respect.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 Sounds like he is gay or at least bi. I like the 'doing you and maybe me', meaning 'maybe doing you and definately me' bit. I think if he is thinking about this every time you have sex you need to have a serious talk about his sexuality.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (28 June 2006):
 Never do anything you dont want to do. He cant make you, you should always feel comfortable in any activity you do. Have you asked him why hes so keen to engage in this ? alot of men can get turned on my seeing their partners with another man, but you say he wants the action too ? Is he only trying to get another man involved so that if its okay for you its okay for him ? Maybe this is a fantasy of his and he wants to know what its like with another man, you gotta ask.. are you cool with that.. I mean is this the shape of things to come ? It may just be that the thought turns him on, but it could also men that he has strong sexual desires to be with another man, in which case, you gotta wonder if he has already and is likely to in the future. Ask him why, he's happy to hound you, hound him back! But whatever you do dont ever agree to something that you dont want to do for the sake of someone else.
Take care x
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reader, Qtpie06 +, writes (28 June 2006):
Its sounds to me like ur boyfriend might be gay or bi. U need to watch out for that also. What made him want to do that sort of thing in the first place? U gotta think of that too. He might be involved in some homosexual activities outside of your home.
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (28 June 2006):
 If you are not interested then you need to let him know right away, dont let him keep on mentioning it! You need to express to him why you wont allow it and tell him that if it is something that he really wants then he needs to find someone with the same desires. Otherwise he he could just stop mentioning it and possibly cheat on you if given the opportunity to experience it. Dont let him talk you into something you dont want to do! There are plenty of good guys out there who know how to treat and love their partner like a real woman! Don't you want to be what is on your partner's mind when you have sex rather than another guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): well if your into that kind of thing but it seems like your not since you're asking about it. I would say no. basically if he needs someone else to feel good with it should be you not you and someone else.
P.S. I'm not gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): Dump your boyfriend!!You don't deserve to be treated like a slut, unless you wanted too! Other than that, you're BOY need's to grow up and he better get some counselling coz he's not right on the head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): If you don't want to do it, then say you don't want to do it. How difficult is that? [sigh]
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