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writes: I can't get my girlfriend's past sex life because she has been more than promiscuous.Tens of one-night stands,repeated cheating on her ex-partners,lying being purely the way of her life and so many more elements of a 'far too liberal',yet very unstable, past that I'm very scared to further discover and that really haunts me.In addition to that,it's the fact that 3000 kilometres separate us which makes me so doubtful on her declarations of a changed woman since we started our relationship.We have been together for 10 months of which we were physically next to each other for only two.The remaining 8 months our relationship has been conducted via heavy telephone use.There's a possibility that she will come and live with me in October.I've been living a very lonely life while initiating a PhD abroad and she's the only person that I really get to communicate and that prevents me from falling into depression.She's 24 and I'm 28 and provided that she's faithful and honest, I really intend to spend loads of time with her.What would be your suggestions for my case?Should I trust my feelings as well as my mental health on her?Your help and advice are much appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): I can't imagine that your still here waiting for an answer to this question, but its still on unanswered, and was sibmitted at a time when DearCupid wasn't at the same success it is today.
By the way, I can guess that the problem is already sorted out by the length of time.
I don't think its a how you can learn to trust her. Its a can you learn to trust her. She didn't then. Is she still the same now?
I hope your PhD went well and that you have a fantastic life now. I can't imagine a followup or anything but just an apology that your question wasn't answered at the time of the problem is all I can give.
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