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*Diamondx
writes:Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 9 months...and about two months ago he got a tattoo of my name, a pretty big one...everyone who's seen it asked him if he slept with me yet..he always replies no..I feel bad about that...I definitely won't have sex at this age but do you think we should do something more than kissing? What? ThankYou =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Don't do anything you aren't ready to do and don't do it just to please other people's ears. What you and your boyfriend have with each other is between the both of you alone...it is no one elses business.
If you are interested in other stuff, maybe foreplay or oral sex is the way to go. You should talk about it with him though, to see if its ok with him. He's prolly willing to wait for you to be ready but thats why you should ask him as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Hello,
He has a tattoo with your name on it I find isn't a smart idea. I swayed my friend from getting one with her boyfriends name on it she thanked me later when they broke up.
No you don't owe him anything because he's done that. You do what feels right to you. Its good you've sustained from sex with him that's a smart decision. You're young and you have plenty of time ahead of you.
Good luck
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 May 2010):
 Getting a TATTOO is HIS choice. Getting one with your name on doesn't mean he all of a sudden owns you or that you OWE him a darn thing (sexually or otherwise)
I think he sounds creepy, to be honest.. If you are in the age range of 13-15 he is 14-16? He shouldn't be getting tattoo's nor buy you insanely expensive jewelery.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (18 May 2010):
 Getting a tatoo of your name after only 9 months of dating is crazy. Nevertheless.. it was his decision to make. Doing more is YOUR decision to make. Don't do anything out of guilt, and don't do anything until YOU are ready. If he cares about you that much he will understand.
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (18 May 2010):
From what it sounds like, you feel the need to get more physical because of what other people are saying. I am proud of you because you have decided to wait to have sex. YAY. But even to be more physical, wait until you feel like it is the right time. Do not do it coz it would look bad. Your bf loves you despite you not being very physical with him and that is a really sweet thing. Not a lot of guys do that for girls. If he is okay with it, you shouldnt worry a lot. Get more physical when it is the right time and when you feel like.
Hope that helps.
Cheers
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reader, xDiamondx +, writes (18 May 2010):
xDiamondx is verified as being by the original poster of the question -He's exactly a year older than me :)
-He never asked me for sex,never forced me to do anything except kiss.
-He even bought me a ring, but it was really expensive so his parents made him take it back.
-He cheated on me..I broke up with him, then he met me at the mall and begged for me[on his knees] in front of everyone there...
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