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writes:So here it is short and sweet. My bf doesn't like me hanging out with guys and flipped out the other night when I did. Only to find out last night that, the same night he was texting me freaking out, he was spending the night at his ex girlfriends who basically stalks him, up in Austin about six hours away. Said he went there to see her son cause he had grown close to him. Am I wrong for being just a little upset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell you guys, he went to see his biological child in Austin. During that time, he also went and seen his ex's child. He said he spent the night at HER house, but slept with the kid. So hmmm. I'm not so sure what I believe anymore. :(
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 November 2014):
 He blew up because he figures you are doing the same thing he is CHEATING....
NO ONE drives six hours to see the CHILD of an ex unless it is their child.
that's his excuse. besides having a double standard.
I would not only be upset I would tell him he has no say in who you are friends with and who you see unless you have the same say in his life.
when he went to visit this child of an ex where did he stay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2014): It works both ways, he can't be such a hypocrit. Talk to him nicely and try to reach a compromise. If he wants you to stop seeing guy friends, then he has to be willing to give up seeing his ex.
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