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writes: I'm female of 23plus and my guy is 29yearsplus we've been dating getting to 3months which l love so much but sometimes i still wonder if he loves me as a result what happen of recent, this how it happen two weeks ago when an enginner who repairs electronic came to our house for him to repair our faulty electronic and i was with my guy when the enginner called me before l left him to pick the enginner because he is doesnot know our new place,so after the enginner is through i had to excourt out of the gate to prevent the dogs from hunting him since he is a stranger but to my suprise when returning back home my guy refuse to say a word to me,all of a sudden my guy called me on fone i said angrily that i lied to him that the enginner that came to our house is my boyfriend l let him know he is not but still he wouldn't belief me since then he stopped calling me on fone and each time i tried calling back to find out that its been a while i had from him he respond in a low voice that he doesnt want to disturb me with his fone calls what does he mean by that statement,should i go plead with him or still be patience i see what will happen.advice please thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, cattycakes  +, writes (9 May 2014):
He is looking for a reason to finish with you, because there is no reason he is making one up.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (8 May 2014):
 Sorry for the language, but tell your boyfriend to blow it out of his insecure ass, and dump him. Seriously, the guy is dumping his insecurity onto you, and if he's exhibiting this behavior at 3 months and at the 3 month level, you're already "loving him so much", that is dangerous, as in physical abuse dangerous or crazy stalker dangerous.
Run like hell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2014): What reason has he got to:1. Not trust you and accuse you like this??2. Shun and ignore you? - answer- NONE, you've done nothing wrong, and he has issues. He's treating you VERY poorly...I'm sorry but if you don't trust someone, you clearly don't know them that well, or care about them... Do you trust people you truly CARE about? This isn't a reflection on you, he just needs to sort his head out. You DONT need to be on the receiving end of this crap... Be strong, cut contact and consider it a lucky escape. Although you feel great for the three months, it's not THAT long, and at least you haven't wasted years on a life- long love right? Good luck and be strong :) x
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (7 May 2014):
 Well, I think you DODGED a bullet with your "bf" - he was all nice and sweet for 3 months and then BAM accusing you of cheating the FIRST time he sees you with another male....
Personally, I would stop calling him and consider the relationship over.
If you keep seeing him it will get worse.
The guy obviously doesn't trust you, nor does he respect you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2014):
 I think that 3 months in is a huge milestone for many couples.. it's when reality starts rearing it's ugly head.
The reality is that your boyfriend has insecurity and self-esteem issues that lead him to accuse you of things that didn't happen.
I would not plead with him.
I would not even sit around and wait for him.
I would say to him "i'm sorry you don't trust me but without trust there is no relationship" and I'd end it.
no need to waste time with someone who does not trust you.
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