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writes:dear cupid...im a female in a monoginus relationhip with my boyfriend..most things we have in common that make it so wonderful are, our health and keep our selves becoming over weight, our kids, our physical, our wonderful sexual relationship, our cooking together in the kitchen, our walks, our movies, he buys my groceries..cooks for me, runs errands for me, always buying me flowers..wants to marry me someday soon,..wants to move in toghether...best friends.. We have alot in common....the cancer that is growing that wants to destroy us..is his occasional wandering eye, that does double takes...i found out a few months ago of his visits on the web to milfs..naked teens..teen myspace... His dad young,in his forties of masterbation/hanging. My bf if very sexual/..but so am i..i can keep up. I am lost. I have a teenage daughter, 15. should i seek professional help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): You may have some serious issues here.
He's looking at teens online and you have a teen daughter.
Personal experience may cloud my judgment, but this creeps me out. I've seen plenty of porn in my life, but "teen" shit is really weird from my perspective for adult males in their 40s to be looking at. I had a business associate, who was in the same room with me and my family more than once, charming, pleasant, nice guy, liked a great deal by his subordinates, family guy, worked and volunteered in his church...child rapist, now in prison.
Another person that I knew well, but never trusted much because of his behavior in general (although not what I'd suspect)...child rapist, now in prison.
So, I get to thinking they are "everywhere".
Really keep your eyes open here.
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reader, Chippy2 +, writes (26 October 2010):
I think you should check into more info about what he does. Is he on any dating sites online?
I had a man who was similar to all you have said, but yes, then I found out the kind of sites he was going on - I didnt mind the porn but the dating sites stating he was single?
Teen porn sites when he had his teenage daughters friends staying over? Yeh, that started to feel not right.
He acts like Mr. Wonderful but it is all about him in some way. If you dont agree he is Wonderful it will crush his allusion of himself. ( Sociopath)
Btw he got engaged to a new gal he met online who thinks he is WONDERFUL she has moved in and does everything for him, he is engaged to her but recently signed up for yet another dating site stating he is single!
Please just keep your eyes open.
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reader, amyxavier  +, writes (26 October 2010):
most men like to watch porn it has nothing to do with your relationship try suggesting you watch some porn together ,it might help you to see that porn is not a threat it will destroy your relationship if you let it try watching some porn on your own and see how it feels chances r it will not change the way you feel towards yur man its just a release it is not the same as cheating these r just images your man uses to get off on when he is not with you
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