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I find it hard to focus on my husband because of all mess and find myself thinking of this other man all the time....

Q.   Hi I am a women in my late thirties with two young children, I have been married for twelve years, during this time my husband has ended our relationship twice, once as a trial separation, then for good. This was a very difficult time for me, but ...

A.   31 January 2011: i think you need to look at your relationship deeply you say your husband broke it off with you twice,but only decided to come back when he found out you were moving on and dating again . he was jelouse hes a loser you need to do what you really ... (read in full...)

I've realised I have messed up but now she has lost all her feelings for me! What can I do to bring them back?

Q.   Hie guys, i am a guy aged 31 married for 3 and half years to a 25 year old lady. We have a two year old kid together. The problem is during this whole period my wife used to complain that i dont show her love and i dont talk to her. This was for ...

A.   3 November 2010: im sorry but it seems like it s too late for you by the sounds of things your wife gave you enough time to change and told you all the things that she felt were wrong in your marriage but you could not be bothered to change .and now its too late now ... (read in full...)

Do guys like red heads for anything more than sex?

Q.   I have naturally long, dark red hair and have never really liked it. Guys seem to like it, and i've been told it's "hot". I'm thinking about dying it dark brown, but i'm not sure whether to or not. Sometimes i think guys are just interested or ...

A.   29 October 2010: i am a natural red head and have had lots of guys want to date me as a girlfriend i have been happily married for 13 years and was a re head when i met my husband but i have also been dark and am currently blond i dont think guys need to act out ... (read in full...)

Does she want to work things out or is she stringing me along?

Q.   I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be ...

A.   28 October 2010: i think she is just so scared that you have hidden and lied more than the thing she knows about once the trust is gone it is so hard to get it back she does not want to gethurt again if you love her and want her be patiant if she is worth it you ... (read in full...)

My best friend is engaged, but I love her! what do I do?

Q.   I have been best friends with this girl for 4 years. And in love with her for at least 3 of those years. She has been in a relationship since not long before I met her and has recently gotten engaged. We go out together to lunch, run errands, and ...

A.   27 October 2010: tell her tell her tell her we only get one life if she is such a good friend and the feelings arent mutual she will understand why you had to tell her ,dont go in head first try to tell her gently like maybe saying you know i really value our ... (read in full...)

I have never felt the massive butterflies in a relationship

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2years (with a 1 year break between) He is my first boyfriend and i do love him. However I sometimes get doubts about our relationship. Its nothing he has done as he is wonderful to me and always puts 100% ...

A.   26 October 2010: if you are having doubts dont marry him unless u r sure life is not like the fairy tale stories but u should feel some sort of connection with him maybe there is a chemical atraction between you u say when yuo were apart from him u compared every ... (read in full...)

My bf's wandering eye, flirting, and internet cheating.

Q.   dear cupid...im a female in a monoginus relationhip with my boyfriend..most things we have in common that make it so wonderful are, our health and keep our selves becoming over weight, our kids, our physical, our wonderful sexual relationship, our ...

A.   26 October 2010: most men like to watch porn it has nothing to do with your relationship try suggesting you watch some porn together ,it might help you to see that porn is not a threat it will destroy your relationship if you let it try watching some porn on your ... (read in full...)

I just want to tell him to fukc off!

Q.   okay i put a post up here before about me going for dinner with the ex, now in it i flirted slightly not too much but he didn make any comment, he wasn't really looking at me to be honest he couldnt wait for me to leave but then he said can i met ...

A.   24 October 2010: darling you r worth more than this if hes seeing some one else u can do better be strong and find out who u r as a person the chances r wen he sees how well u do without him hell com e running back but by then u wont need him good luck... (read in full...)

Men: Is dirty texting to your mates normal?

Q.   id really like a males veiw on this question is dirty texting to your mates normal cause i just wonder if its playfull banter and nothing to worry about or if its normal no matter how old u r...

A.   24 October 2010: ok its my husband and he texts his freind from work dirty things like stick your cock up my ass or ill bend u over in a minute sum of it is really disgusting but him and his freind says its just fun and baanter so i take it from most of the comments ... (read in full...)

I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...

Q.   My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It comp...

A.   24 October 2010: contacat her and tell her exactly how u feel i have been the girl in this relationship and she is crying out for your love and attention she wants you to go and present your undying love to her she is holding back to see how much you love her but ... (read in full...)

Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/

Q.   this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has ...

A.   22 October 2010: thankyou for your answers you may have helped a lot... (read in full...)

If he misses me why can't he just say he's sorry?

Q.   Please bare with me, and please help! When I was 14 I met this boy online. He was the same age as me we had the same interests and generally got on very well. We spoke online nearly everyday, as well as texting each other and phoning each oth...

A.   22 October 2010: life is too short tell him and see what happens if he has moved on then at least you know u tried one last time and u will have to try to move on who knows he might be feeling exactly the same way and not want to say anything incase he gets rejected ... (read in full...)

I don't trust him and he's tired of saying "I love you" with me not believing him

Q.   My bf and I have been going out for 2 years. After one year he met up with his ex [who he knew I was insecure about] behind my back and pretende dhe hadn't. He then had a rather inapprorpriately flirt text convo with yet another girl. We worked it ...

A.   22 October 2010: no this is not your fault he should not of done these things if he loved u but i feel that sometimes men dont use thier brains until they have messed something up and there is a prospect for trouble im sure he does love you he needs to show u more ... (read in full...)

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