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writes:When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to take it the wrong way
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (31 January 2008):
If you broke up with him would you like to stop existing in his life even as a friend? When you date someone,you grow emotionally attached to that person and even after break up you can't just pretend they don't exist.However,be cautious and inform him of the limits you expect him to observe because some ex-partners try to take advantage of this.I don't blame you feeling that way.
Good Luck
Take care.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 A man with two faces or a forked tongue.When he is with you , he says one thing and behind your back , he is another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): I was going through the same thing id be causious if i was you, ask a few questions about her without been too forward, it might be just that hes got over her now and wants to put the past behind him now he has you but because he said she wasnt a nice person should make you think then why still talk to her, he might still be in to her, just ask bits about her, you might have nothing to worry about. Good luck x
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reader, Sams_WonderWoman +, writes (31 January 2008):
 I would worry if my guy did the same thing. I would be very cautious if I were you. Why after a year with you he is still in contact with her, and on Myspace? If he said that she was not a good person, then he shouldn't make an effort to keep in contact with her. Just be careful not to get your heart broken. Just do some investigating on Myspace to see what is going on. Have some of your good friends to be on the look out to see if there is some deception going on.
I wish you the very best
God Bless!!
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reader, dc.ryan  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Hello,
It does seem a little odd; but perhaps he is just interested in a friendship, or catching up with her (not in the sense of cheating or anything like that).
The only way you're going to find out, is ask him - you've been together a considerable amount of time and you should feel you can easily approach him to discuss how it slightly concerns you that hes speaking to his ex which he apparently hated so much.
Sit down and have a chat, you'll probably find its something completely innocent. I know its hard not to jump to conclusions, as you're protective (like anyone in a relationship) - but you need to be able to trust your partner, for now - I wouldn't worry about it.
Take it easy,
Ryan
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