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writes: My boyfriend is 19 and goes out to partys nearly everynight. Im 17 so I have a curfew and only go out on the weekends. On weekdays he will come see me for a while and then go out. Even when we do get to party together, I still always have to go home first and then he goes out and drinks and gets crazy. He wouldnt cheat on me and I really trust him, but I just dont like the fact that he probably has many opportunities too and just the fact of me never being able to know. I have also been getting a little upset that he will limit my drinking and then get wasted when I'm not even there. I'm not usually in relationships and I don't like having restrictions. I like to be with him all the time but I never go out anywhere without him and im starting to feel like things are unfair. I cant ask him to stop going out because our friends will think im ridiculous and only extremely jealous people act like that. I dont want to start problems but this is how I feel. Is it wrong for me to feel like this? Should I tell him and what do I say?
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 well it is wrong just because you are on curfew doesnt mean he cant enjoy him self. may be in stead of spending all your time with him go out with him a few times a week and the rest of the times spend with your freinds going out soem where different that way youll feel youve done more on your curfew youve spent it with freinds and with your boyfreind. Also if you dont mind me asking what time is your curfew? as you are 17 and the latest for you to go in i think should be 11pm-11;30pm. If its any sooner than that maybe talking to your parents and asking them for a later time to stay out. And youll not suppose to be drinking untill your 18 but does any one listen to the law these days no body has the right to limit your drinks so next time he trys to reply ok you limit your drink and lets go, taht way hell proberly ignore you and then you do the same and ignore him. but any way your 18 soon so you will have your own life to live and no one can put you on any kind of curfew then thats the whole pint of looking forward to your 18'th birthday lol.
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