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writes: I am in a very confused state at the moment and I dont know what to do or how to approach the subject with my boyfriend.I have been seeing my boyfriend for the past 4 months now it has been a lovely realtionship where he treats me well and treats me like a lady, something I never had in the past..until recently I did not realise just how jealous he was and controlling. He hide it well to start with. Now whenever we are out he accuses me of looking at other men etc.(which I am not doing) and wants to know my whereabouts consistantly. However within the last week or so he has become somewhat distant from me and all the phone calls and text messages has dwindled from maybe 10 a day to once a day..I found this quite strange and had a gut feeling what it could be. Well I done something quite wrong, which I am not proud of, but I went into his Hotmail account and read his emails, and he has been sending sexual emails to girls on sex websites and meeting with them on a one to one..when I found this out I was discusted . How could he, but the things is, how can I bring it up to him without letting him know that I have gone into his personal Hotmail account. I intend to end the relationship anyway, but I just dont know what to do..please help.Thank you.
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reader, I care  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 my advice anyone that cheats is not for you your a person that 's worth something your not a door mat so let no one treat you like one. there is a world of loving men out there you just have to get out there and meet one.And trust me they will treat you like a lady and not be controlling they will love you and respect you as an idividual not as a possesion.
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