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anonymous
writes:i'm dating my bestfriends brother. me and him tried to ignore our feelings for eachother but it was to hard we are now dating, but my bestfriend wants me too choose. i love my boyfriend, they both mean the world to me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): It sounds like maybe your best friend is jealous of her brother. Like maybe she feels like he "stole" you from her, or maybe she doesn't like the fact that you spend time with him and not her. I think you need to tell your boyfriend. Also, ask his sister WHY she wants you to choose either her or her brother? Why does it bother he so much that you are dating her brother? Do her and her brother not get along?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): it's not worth loosing your friendship with your best friend but if she is a true friend she should be more understanding and be happy for you two. maybe ask her how she would feel if she was in your shoes.
tell her you can't choose between two people that you really care about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Does your boyfriend know anything about this ultimatum that his sister has issued? If not, he needs to know and then maybe he'll sort this out with his sister.
She should be pleased for the two of you, but maybe she's a control freak or she thinks you're going to take her brother away from her. Give in to blackmail once and you'll suffer from it for evermore.
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