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30-35,
*ute angel
writes:Hey as u guys know i told u abt my crush..but the solutions i got confused me further..just cause i called him a nerd u guys thought he is ugly..let me correct the fact he is the hottest guy in college and all the girls run after him but he doesn't care about anyone as far as i know... i see him only in the library and that is not a best place to strike a conversation when everyone is quitely studying... You guys told me to go talk to him, but what do i talk about? We don't even study in the same class,,please help
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Hiya Angel, I answered your previous question earlier. All i can suggest is you try and pluck up the courage and go over to him, (if you see him around the college grounds) and say something like -'Hey, my name's ....., what's your's, i'm going for a coffee, do you want to join me?' Or if he's in the library, walk over and asked if you can sit near him, and maybe strike up a 'quiet' conversation with him there.
I know it's easier said than done, but one of you has to make the first move, and i don't think it's going to be him. Unless of course you just wait hoping he will, but that could be a very long time.
If i fancied someone one that much - i'd do it, believe me, and there is nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. Try not to think about it too much and just go for it.
You need to know why he keeps looking over at you. His body language alone is showing he's interested. Perhaps he's hoping you'll go over to him, as you said he is shy, and chances are he's too nervous to approach you, for fear of rejection. (As i mentioned in my previous post).
You go girl, do it before someone else beats you to it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 You don't have to be in the same class.
When a boy and a girl meets,
there will be chemistry and sparks will fly.
Ask him about his hobby or interests.
Keep asking him questions on anything.
Talk about recent issues in your school or community.
Talk about him , what he likes and dislikes.
Anything that you can think off.
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