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anonymous
writes:My best friend really likes this boy, but I like him as well and he as asked me to go out with him! What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): ok well im kinda in the same drama as well but it took me a long time to tell my best friend that the boy she been liking since the first month of school started having feelings for me and so did i and it was really hard ta tell her cuz i didnt want her to think i used her to get to him so wen he asked me out i asked her if it was ok and i thought to my self if she says NO then she isnt really my friend nd if she said YES then our friend ship is really strong nd some boy cant come between us nd she said ya nd now my boy friend nd my best friends are like best friends to so just ask your friend nd u will see if yor friend ship with that person is worth it or not but also go with wat your heart tells you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): I mean when I was thirteen, me and my best friend used to share boyfriends and she had crushes on my bf's and I on hers. And we were honest with each other. And we didn't care. But we had that kind of friendship. Like no guy could come between us type of friendship. And we didn't really take guys that seriously anyways, so I guess that is why it didn't seem like a big deal to us. But I suggest that you tell her that he asked you out BEFORE you go out with him, though. Cause if I had done that to my friend BEHIND her back then we would have never been as close as we were. We probably wouldn't have been friends at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): The fact that you are even asking this question shows that you are true friend. At your age I wouldn't care I would just go out with him and just rub it in her face. Does she know that you like him too? Because if she does chances are that she has thought of the possibility of you going out with the guy also. When I was 17 a 'friend' of mine fixed up my "best friend" with this guy that they both knew I liked. Nothing happened between them but it hurt me to learn that they did that behind my back knowing I liked him.
I suggest you tell your friend this guy asked you out and ask her if it will be OK with her. It's better to maintain a good friendship than to risk it all for a guy. Let's be mature about this. You are like 14, you are not going to marry this guy. But true friendship is a treasure not everyone is lucky to find in their lives.
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