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My best friend likes the boy I like, and I wonder if I should leave her to it...

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Question - (22 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm in desperate need for help.

My best friend loves/likes this boy that I have strong feelings for. I was talking to him first, but then she somehow started liking him, and thought he says he has no feelings for her at all. I'm confused as to whether I should leave him alone or not.

I think I am falling in love with him as well tho, and though we are not in an official relationship I would like advice as to whether or not we should make it official or leave him alone, to save me and my best friend's friendship.

She has done something like this before numerous times tho everytime I meet someone, she starts liking them. I'm kinda fed up but I don't wanna stop being her friend tho. Can someone please help?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006):

Just chalk this one up to your friendship and let her have at him.

Move on and find another guy to crush on and yearn to kiss.

Time and again, I adored some guy in school to only have one of my friends feel the same way. I just let it go and found someone that I could have to myself and not feel hung up on weither or not my friends would be devasted by my feelings for a guy.

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A female reader, Nay920 +, writes (23 August 2006):

If you really care about this guy than you need to tell her how you feel about him and tell her to back off.Because your really care about him and that.Make it official and as far as your friend you need to tell her about her self and tell her what she doing is hurting you and if she really your friend then she will back up and back off.

GOOD LUCK

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