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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend is confusing me about our friendship! It seems like he’s into me and then he’s not? These are the good and bad things he does:Good:• Smiles at me and stares a lot• He always smiles when I touch him• If I make fun of him he just laughs it doesn’t bother him• I told him that I liked him and he’s still my friend• He liked the gift that I gave him• Always try’s to find a way to friendly argue with me• He pretends like he knows a lot about me• Stares at me when im not looking sometimesBad:• Doesn’t talk to me much• Ignores me during school time• Doesn’t reply to texts just reads them• Never has time to hang out if I ASK HIM• Has a lot of girls who he’s friends withI don’t know why the bad things are happening but sometimes the bad outweighs the good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): hey, i have the same sort of problem. i am really good friends with a boy and we used to talk all the time and sometimes i would think that he liked me and then all of a sudded he'd say something to make me think otherwise. it ALWAYS seems like the bad outweighs the good. also, i think you may need to decide how you feel about him then maybe ask him? that way you might be able to get a straight answer. i'm not expert but i hope this helps (:
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Yes, men are very good at giving mixed signals as well as women. I suspect he fancies you, but is so shy he just can't admit it, or is confused by your signals as well. He certainly likes you. Whether you want to take it further is up to you.
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