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My best boy mate has feelings for me, but I like someone else who mum doesn't want me dating!

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Question - (19 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

am i in love?

im so confusd! my love life is such a mess at the moment im 16 and im so confused! my best boy mate that ive known literally since i was born has feelings for me and im not sure that i can return his feelings and there is this guy at skl i really want to be with i feel sad when im not huggin him , i cant tell what his feeling by his eyes,i now his scent and i can always pick him out of huge crowds am i in love? ive not felt like this before and to be honest im scard ive not had a bf in 2 yrs so im rusty i know this guy likes me back hes asked me to b his gf 3 times but i said no cuz i was up 4 it but whenever we saw each other we couldnt stop hugging each other and hed always want to kiss me im so cnfused my mum doesnt want me goin out with me as theres a two yr diference but my friends say i should they all want me to cuz they think id be so happy but im so close to my mum that im anxious now it pains me to see him with other girls when i feel that it should be me the age gap does bother me a little bit not a lot o help i dont know what to do!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006):

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Xxthanx 4 the help dont u think the age gap matters 2 much?xX

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A female reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (19 December 2006):

LttleBadMonkey12 agony auntDon't you just hate it when best friends all of a sudden decide they have feelings for you.I know just how you feel.Honestley if your best boy mate really is your best boy mate he should understand your feelings towards him and he should to be happy for you and this guy.As for your mom,i don't think she really has a say in who you decide to be with even if you guys are really close.If you really like this guy and your certain he likes you back, you should give it a shot and hope for the best.and if it doesn't work out its not the end of the world.Hopefully you'll still have your best boy mate and you never know maybe you could eventually develop some feelings for him.

Good Luck!!

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