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writes:Hey all !Me and my ex have been split up since may this year, we slept together until september, but this didnt work for me so i decided to try and forget about him.My ex hasnt called or text me in 3 months, he said he hated me and didnt want anything to do with me, and on sunday night i had a missed call from an unknown number at 01.40am.I text this number back yday and the person replyed saying someone must have used his phone to call me and that he was from the same area as my ex.My ex had told me perviously that he was changing his number, and he used to call me at daft times!So what i basically wanna know is, do you guys think it was my ex that called (hes the only person i know frm that area) and if so why as he's now got a gf????It may seem a daft question to ask but im really intrigued, so id really appriciate your views!!Thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): I guess it might have been but who cares if it was?? Did he call again?? NO. Did he leave a message? NO. So for all you know it wasn't him.
I mean when you really could raise an eyebrow is only if he actually does call and tries to talk to you. And then calls again if he can't get in touch with you the first time. Then you will definitely know that he called. Until then move on.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 The exact thing happened to me last week, I’m not kidding. I had 5 missed calls at 2 o’clock in the night from a hidden id-caller and it almost drove me nuts to not know who it was and I was convinced it was my ex. After a few days though, I started thinking that if it really was him and he really had something good to say, then he should try back another day at another time and if he doesn’t, then either it wasn’t him, or he didn’t really have anything of value to say anyway.
It sounds as if it could have been your ex calling, maybe he had a fight with his new girlfriend and was hoping to get some ego boost from you. Sounds to me as if he might be somewhat manipulative or at least having a hard time to make up his mind. And if it really was him calling, then he actually denied it later when you texted the number, even pretending he was someone else, so it doesn’t really sound like you missed anything when not answering. I agree with the others, stop waiting around for his calls and spend your precious time doing more fun things. Leave him sit miserable in nights trying to get hold of his exes.
Wish you all the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Change your phone number and move on. He said he hated you, well that would be it for me, i certainly wouldnt be waiting around for a phone call and if someone phoned at that time of the night, they werent being very considerate. Stop being a door mat and move on.
take care
xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (18 December 2007):
 It could be him but it might not be just turn your phone off at night and dont keep obbsessing he has moved on and so should you besides the only people who tend to call at that hour are usually perverts,drunks just weird most the time all 3 so i would just leave it as a mystery.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Stop waiting for wrong numbers on your phone and start living your life. You've got around 50 years left. Sounds like you have just wasted half a year.
Good luck with your life.
Richard
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