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*orothy
writes:I have met a younger Turkish man on holiday. I have been back to see him since and it confirmed how we both felt. I have been married for 18 years and have never felt how i felt with him.I am at present going through a divorce......before i met him. He wants me to go live with him there but i have two children.We talk every day, allnite on webcam and we are smitten.All the odds are against us being together which makes me more determined to be with him. He would give anything to be with me and he is genuine. After a wasted 18 years with someone i want to be happy. He makes me happy, he makes me smile everyday, he is my sun, my moon and my stars. I have to be with him.................................
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 It sounds like it might be a good idea to let your husband raise the kids. If you are seriously considering leaving them, they should be with the parent that cares the most. Don't be foolish. What was so wrong with your marriage?
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 I agree completely with the lady poster before me, this was a holiday romance than has extended, simply because of modern technology we can keep in contact more easily. It's easy to be smitten with the idea, but the reality if you moved over there would be very very different. What if it didn't work out? You'd be in a foreign country with your children, not knowing anyone and with nowhere to go. Think of your children, making new friends would be very hard anyway, never mind in a new country.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Your kids should be your sun, moon and stars, sorry to sound a bit synical, but this was a holiday romance. Things are never quite the same when the holiday is over. You may be in touch by web cam but even that is not the same as dating. Please consider your kids when you are entering into something like this. This is a foreigner in his own country. If you went there to live i bet you would see him in a different light. I know someone who went to Tunisian with her kids and they went through hell. Please, please be careful. Personally i would end this now and find a bloke a bit nearer to home and put 100% into bringing your kids who dont deserve to be dragged through any crap.
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