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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi thereI have never been in a real relationship before. I dated lots of guys when I was younger, I am now 29. I usually refuse for friends and family to set me up. I truly believed that I would meet the right person myself. Anyway, I recently joined an online marital website. I come from a reserved, semi-orthodox background. I do believe that I am looking to marry. So, I met this guy. He initiated contact with and the he is the only guy's interest I accepted.We have been chatting for a month and will be meeting in two weeks. I have arranged everything so that our meeting will be on my terms, plus my best friend will be there. My problem; there are a couple:Firstly, I dont believe I have any self-esteem issues, but my profile picture is really good...because of lighting and make-up...should I be concerned, how do you tell someone this without coming across as though I have low personal values.Secondly, he comes from an incredibly educated and wealthy family...how do I tell him that I don't. Personally though, I have two degrees. I really dont want him to think I am being insecure. I do like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): do you have a webcam? You could show each other your selves on webcam first? Don't worry he will have had people in his life who haven't been as rich as he has.
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