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writes:So one of my good friends asked me out about 2 months ago. I was so excited, and we went out, had a great time, and started dating for a few weeks. During this time i was pretty stressed out from a multitude of things, didn't have much time for him and had some things to sort out with my family and what not. On top of that, his personality is very eccentric and a lot to handle for me, he's very 'high maintenance' you could say.So I broke things off, and we didn't talk for a little while, but now we're getting back into being friends again. Problem is, I miss him a lot! He was the most caring person I have ever been with and was so kind. So now talking to him and seeing him again is making me miss spending time with him and him caring about me, a lot. Should I tell him I miss him? Should i tell him my feelings have kind of grown for him now?I don't want to tell him, get back together, and go through the same thing again where maybe I lose interest and then break it off a few weeks later. What should I do?
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (26 November 2010):
sounds like you really have a lot of love for your ex. i understand what you mean when you say high maintenance. it seems hard to please people like that. it was a good thing that you broke it off though because of the family problems and the sort. if you didnt you might have neglected him due to the problems and it would have been frustrationg for him.
the next matter is your love for him. now , you said that you guys are good friends for the time but you have a crush on him, remembering the times that you had. i think you should stick the friendship thing for now because you do not know if you would end up in the same situation like you did before. if you want to tell him that you miss him, do not do it before he shows you that he missed you in some way or the other.
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