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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I'm meeting my ex-gf of 6 years since we broke up 3 months ago. We are going to eat at my place. I was the one who broke up with her because she felt she needed to be independent since being with me for so long, we are both out of college and were happy as could be.we broke up once before she did for a few weeks and stayed together for about another year until three months ago.I've been very respectful to give her the space she needed and never called her, but always caught when of her asking about me when she saw my friends out. She agreed to eat dinner with me by the way.So she has told people she sees us together eventually, and everyone has told her (not to sound conceded) that she would never find another guy like me, even her friends family etc. Everyone thinks she's spoiled and taking her time cause she has me wrapped around her finger, not true but I love her.I've fianlly started talkin to another girl abit and I feel like I need some type of answer from my ex on our future. Is this wrong?I plan on hanging out with her and just telling her how I feel about use and that I do want to be with her, but I need to know how she feels, I need a "we can get through this, or some form of closure".I figure if she still can't give me some answer instead of I don't know yet or I'm not ready after 3 months of 100% freedom, then I know what the answer is for me.Should I just swallow my pride and let her know exactly how I feel about us and if it doesn't work at least I'll never second guess us?
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