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Mad at my lover, I told his wife what was going on between us...

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Question - (28 July 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2005)
A , *arol46 writes:

I had an affair which lasted 2 months. In this time I fell in love with this man. He was in a very unhappy marriage and had left his wife before he met me, but went back for the sake of his child. He'd phone and text me every day. And we used to met up when we could.

Things got abit out of hand, as I thought he was trying to avoid me one day when he didn't answer his phone and I caught him out by using my friends mobile phone and he then answered. He was having a lot of stress at work,and maybe I should have left it, but a few days later I took it upon myself to go to where his wife works and tell her what's been going on.

Since then I haven't heard from him. That was 5 weeks ago and I feel should I contact him or not? As I can't seem to get him out of my head. I'll mention he did have 2 affairs in the past. And there is another problem; he's my long lost cousin's son, who I never knew until we met when I was tracing my family tree.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (29 July 2005):

First of all, this man is NOT going to leave his wife for you.

Most probably he was trying to avoid you the da that he ignored your call.

I dont think you should caLL him as if he had wanted to contact you then he would have done so by now.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (29 July 2005):

Im not surprised you havent heard from him.

He was most likely hoping for a bit on the side but now his wifes found out, he will be trying to repair his marriage.

Forget about this man and find someone available to go out with.

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