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writes:i am 15 years old and i had a boyfriend of 9 monthsits not alot but he was my life we did eerything together we even had sex both our first times.it but i guess the love we had in the beging was just fadding away and he ended it he said it wasnt me but i have a feeling it was ):i am depressed and i dont know what to do well i basically just want to know what i should do about this.i cant get over him and no one likes me im very pretty and i know it and i dont have a bitchy attitude im smart. me and him were just perfect so i thoughti just need help!\
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 aww sweety you'll go through things like this! i'm sure it was nothing to do with you! you guys are young anyways you've got all your lives ahead of you and you will definately get someone and i don't doubt for a minute you're not smart and beautiful i am sure you are exactly those! and i'm sure lots of guys are waiting to go out with you but guys that age are too shy and/or think it's uncool to like a girl.
they're very silly at your age hun you will get someone and when you do it'll be amazing even better than the relationship you've just had but it's not the end of the world as kellyxxx says you just pick yourself back up and continue with yourself and be nothing but yourself!!!
hope this helps hun i know it's tough :) pop me a message you want to talk further!!
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Well, If i had more information, I could give a clearer response, but here's what i think:
I personally believe that everything happens for a reason, and that maybe it just wasn't meant to be. I was in a similar situation before, except i didn't go that far sexually. You just have to give it time. You have to let this wound heal, if he really loves you, he'll realize what he's done and come back to you. Or maybe you'll find a new love. It may seem hard at first, but you'll get through it. If you keep that confidence in yourself, you might find someone better. You never know. The near future ahead of you is going to be incredibly rough for you, believe me, i know. But it's not impossible to move on from this point. It may seem like the end of the world, but it's not. Soon you'll be smiling again.
I hope I kind of helped, keep me updated :)
Good luck.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 June 2009):
 I was in a similar situation at your age, I have some valuable advice having been there before. 1) this is not the end of the world 2) time heals, just give it time and you'll feel better and find someone else 3) you probably weren't in love, you are young so love means something slightly different to a younger person than it does to a person with experience of diffent boyfriends. X
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