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Heyy :)

I'm Jatae, and I'm unfortunately the palest girl in sunny Florida. I plan to move to Las Vegas though. Music runs through my veins and I love giving advice and giving my opinion to whoever wants to hear it. I love a good laugh and a cold root beer while listening to the Beatles. My favorite baseball team is the Atlanta Braves. I usually like the movies that people consider "weird" or "immature." Happily taken. I hate crying over spilt milk and usually don't bother people with my problems. I always try to look at the glass half full. I believe everything happens for a reason. I love driving my 1984 red corvette. I'm definitely more than meets the eye, and there is NO way I can describe myself in this little paragraph :P

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My b/f got another girl pregnant

Q.   I need help.... I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. About 3 months ago he told me that he has another girl preggo. She's 28 and he's only 24. To make a long story short he says he loves me and wants to be with me. He know he messed up, he has ...

A.   5 January 2011: my advice, honestly, is to leave him. what he did will tear you apart, and when that baby comes into this world, it is only a symbol of what he did. and it will eat at you and eat at you. and the fact that he did this after five years with you? i'm ... (read in full...)

Coming out is difficult?

Q.   I'm gay. I've known I was gay or as long as I can remember. However, I'm afraid to come out. I'm a Junior in High School, and I know i'm not ready. But I find that coming out will be especially hard for me as my brother is also gay, and he is out. ...

A.   5 January 2011: hey hun, growing up my mom was a lesbian and thats what i was use to, thinking eeryone had two moms. but when i got older, i started to realize that wasn't the case. i kept it to myself for the longest time, not knowing how to say it, being scar... (read in full...)

I feel like a horn dog when I think about my boyfriend!

Q.   Im 15 and in an LDR, 2 year age difference. We've spoken of sex, of course and if we see each other it certainly wont happen asap. But thats beside the point. To us sex isnt sex we literally think of it as part of Love. And i cant help it but ...

A.   5 January 2011: Well, with the baby situation, i strooooongly suggest not to persue tha desire. that wish may be coming from a longing of wanting to become closer with your boyfriend, to make it permanent, to create someething of your own. but trust me, you do not ... (read in full...)

I feel like a horn dog when I think about my boyfriend!

Q.   Im 15 and in an LDR, 2 year age difference. We've spoken of sex, of course and if we see each other it certainly wont happen asap. But thats beside the point. To us sex isnt sex we literally think of it as part of Love. And i cant help it but ...

A.   3 January 2011: YOU'RE A TEENAGER! IT'S NATURAL! :) you're hormones are raaaaging right now, so of course it's natural to be feeling this way. A lot of you peers are going through the same thing, and i'm sure you're boyfriend is too. what makes a difference is if... (read in full...)

What are the after effects of cheating ?

Q.   I want to know what are the after effects of cheating on someone? is it make 'permanent' damages for your current relationships? can people have the same desires for each other again after cheating? or is there any kind of despises,anger or lack o...

A.   3 January 2011: well, it depends whether or not you'r ethe person who cheats or not. if you're the person that got chested on, it defnitely takes major effect on the relationship. you lose trust and faith. two MAJOR things needed in a relationship. you start to... (read in full...)

It feels like her love for me is fading, is there anyway I can restore it?

Q.   Hi...I have a situation that I don't know how to turn it around. I'm currently in a long distance relationship. I'm in a different country then my girl. I have been away from her for close to 7 months now. We would video chat almost everyday ...

A.   27 June 2009: Well, I wouldn't give up on it. There could be something going on in her personal life. You should just randomly check on her, casually make sure she's okay and just do random thoughtful things for her while your away. Send flowers, or send a random ... (read in full...)

My ex keeps calling me and I'm starting to feel scared

Q.   so my ex left me for my friend and i dont talk to neither of them but my ex is veru confusing, he disses me then is nice to me. he tells everyone he hates me. i dont have any form of feelings for him. hes constantly dissing me! on myspa...

A.   24 June 2009: All you can really do is ignore him, don't let him get to you. Or if you want, confront him in a semi-public place. I'm not real sure, but you really should tell an adult of some kind. This guy doesn't sound good, and you alone may not be enough to ... (read in full...)

Is this a sign she wants to break up?

Q.   I have been dating this girl for a littke over a month. At first we would spend hours on the phone at a time. Now it is more like 30 minutes at a time and once a day. We also use to text a lot now she dosn't always reply. It has been a while since I ...

A.   24 June 2009: You never really know what could be going on with her. Maye she needs some time to think. But you should definitely get together and talk. Just casually what's going on in her life and why all of a sudden there's a slow on the conversation. The best ... (read in full...)

How are we ever going to get together?

Q.   Ok, so there this guy at the place were I volunteer, we flirt all the time. He works there and one day he asked me how old I was and he keeps showing up in the kitchen when I am volunteering and teases me and all. He asked me if I had a boyfriend. ...

A.   24 June 2009: Ask him on a date! You don't have to wait for him to invite you anywhere! He obviously has interest in you, he's even showed you a picture of his son. Guys like it when women take control once in a while. Your an independent woman, you can do it! ... (read in full...)

My life is filled with drama!

Q.   please help me i'm confused. when i was 15 i went to a party did things i'm not proud of i got drunk and made out wit a guy i barely met.i honestly remember the whole thing but the next day i lied and said i dont remember anything but i did.he d...

A.   24 June 2009: Just forget this guy, really cause he was probably just looking for some fun that night. He kinda sounds immature, and it sounds like he doesn't respect you at all, or even really care. Forget all those losers and find a real guy that can care for ... (read in full...)

Love hurts , .I can't get over him

Q.   i am 15 years old and i had a boyfriend of 9 months its not alot but he was my life we did eerything together we even had sex both our first times. it but i guess the love we had in the beging was just fadding away and he ended it he said it was...

A.   24 June 2009: Well, If i had more information, I could give a clearer response, but here's what i think: I personally believe that everything happens for a reason, and that maybe it just wasn't meant to be. I was in a similar situation before, except i didn... (read in full...)

He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?

Q.   I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...

A.   24 June 2009: You are definitely not over reacting. Honestly, I would be the same way. This could develop into something, I'm not trying to get you paranoid or anything, but it may accidentally happen one day. Then you'll hear all he excuse "oh, we were drunk" or ... (read in full...)

Why won't she return my call?

Q.   I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...

A.   24 June 2009: I know exactly what's happening with this girl. Now, I know this may seem hard to do but you HAVE to back off a little, just be friends. And not one of those friends who text/call/email every ten minutes. Don't bring the relationship problems or ... (read in full...)

How long was your first kiss with a new person?

Q.   This is just a general question. But when you had your first kiss ever, or even a first kiss with a new person, how long did it last? Because I had my first kiss ever a few weeks ago and it lasted for over an hour. We obviously broke apart t...

A.   24 June 2009: lol, this is quite normal. Don't worry about it, my first kiss was about an hour too :) kissing is pretty much addictive, there's the feeling of lust and anticipation and the rush and comfort of everything just makes it feel right and time can just ... (read in full...)

I really love him and don't know what to do.

Q.   I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no, O...

A.   24 June 2009: He obviously doesn't respect you, and if he doesn't respect you, he's not gonna respect your relationship. I believe you should let him go, if he forces you to do things you don't want to do just to make him happy, then he honestly sounds like a ... (read in full...)

I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...

A.   24 June 2009: Honestly, drunk or not, she's your girlfriend. You need to protect and defend her. When your "buddies" do that kind of thing, you have to stand up for her. Let her know that you care for her and her beliefs. You should just let her chill for awhile ... (read in full...)

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