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writes:I am married for the last seven years and I have two kids, however my marriage is loveless. Last year I met this woman at work she is divorced with kids. From the first moment I saw her, I felt attracted to her and she was to me and in no time we were together talking. In the beginning it was more a physical attraction as I didn't want any attachment, but through time and pressure from her side, a strong feeling grew between us or at least that what I believed. I told her from day one that I am still married because of the kids, as it is not their fault that the parents screwed up in their choice. Even Though we were madly in love, we never had actual sex. Suddenly three months ago she started to talk about there is nothing between us and we should go apart and just to be friends. Even though I didn't like it, I accepted her wishes, but then a few days later she comes back and say that she loves me and we are back kissing and hugging. Five times the same thing happened. I can no longer able work as I see her every day and I ended up having depression and to be on medication. It is torture and I don't know what to do.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 You should resolve to be stronger emotionally and mentally and walk away from all these problems with her. Refocus all your attentions to your wife and family.
If would be best if you can get move away from your present job. If that is not possible , to ignore her and be cold towards her at your work place.
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reader, weparley  +, writes (27 March 2010):
This women pulled the rug right from under your feet like satan did Adam & Eve.
It's time to wake up bro! You have no business being on medication over this bitch.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Take all of this energy that you are putting into this other woman, and re-direct it into your actual marriage.
Next, look up the policy at your workplace regarding relations between co-workers.
Do you have PROOF that all contact between the two of you was consensual? All that has to happen is that you get accused, and your reputation is tainted for life at that company. She is not worth it.
Start looking for another job.
-Frank
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Either you stay married or you go with her.
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