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writes: will my bf know im a virgin? i told him i had a one night stand a few months ago, thas how i lost my viginity however i was lieing
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Why would you be embarressed to say you are a virgin and rather risk him thinking you are easy?
Honesty is best policy.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Hi Anon,
I've had two girlfriends who did this to me in the past and to be honest I wish I'd known they wre virgins. They pretended to be experienced lovers and the love making was quite awkward as I felt they wre not comfotable. I only learnt afterwards and was not hurt but if I'd known I would have taken more time before we made love and perhaps could have been more gentle and patient. I suggest you tell him the truth and take your time before you actualy get to do penetration. If you're not lubricated enough when you do finaly go through with things get a good water based lube to make things more comfortable. hope this helps. Cheers
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 January 2007):
 He probably won't know you're a virgin but to be honest I suggest for your own peace of mind that you tell him. Losing your virginity is this huge monumental thing and you'll have enough stress on you worrying about getting everything right etc. If you tell him you're a virgin he can show you the way and you can relax more. I'm sure he won't think less of you for being a virgin! Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 First of all, no, he won't know that you're a virgin.
But before you go ahead with what you want to do, ask yourself why you didn't want him to know that you're a virgin. It's nothing bad.
I'm not saying that the first time is the most important thing in the world, but it's always good to be able to trust the person you're with. You might be setting yourself up for a bad experience if you can't even trust your boyfriend enough to let him know you haven't had intercourse before.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (14 January 2007):
 it really depends, if you have broken youre hymen, ie horse riding , tampons so forth then i wouldnt have thought he would notice.. to be honest theirs no need to lie to youre partner just because you havent had sex.. best relationships are best without lies .... hope this helps xxx A
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