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writes:I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 years, I am getting laid off from my job next month my bf says I should go and live with my dad, my dad does not know we are living together, I really am confused, I don't know what to do. I want to stay with my boyfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Is he not wanting to take the resposibilty for you after 9 years? You get laid off your job and he tells you to go live with your dad a month before you have even finished? Thats just plain selfish!! Do you really want to stay there for him or is there another reason? Lets just say that if he got laid off his job would you tell him to go live with another family member? Does he still want to continue the relationship? Do you get to move back in when you get another job? Have a think about it and ask youself is it worth staying where you are? Find the protentials to moving in with your Dad or staying where you are. GOOD LUCK on your decision :-)
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reader, mesugarbabe  +, writes (29 December 2008):
You need to point out to him that due to the econmey and the reasent news of the resession alot of people are going to be out of work, laid off or fired from their place of employment. Tell him you didn't choise to get laid off and in life these things happen and at this time you need all the support you can get. You should tell him that you were a willing worker. I hope you will tell him you wouldn't treat him this way and to imagin if the shoe were on the other foot. Explain to him there are good and bad times, and there should be a give and take in realaionships and you don't need to be with an unsupporting,uncaring person like himself. Please don't let this keep you down and continue to look for a job as you are still working...Best off luck and be strong for yourself...
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