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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:right guys, i'm totally confused here!I'm 17 almost 18. and i had a relationship last year november time, with this guy.. who i thought i actually loved. and i (out of my own decision) had sex with him, and lost my virginity too him, and he lost his too me. i thought it would last longer than 6 months. after 2 months of being together, we argued almost every night, about little stupid things. in the end, i was giving up my friends and my best friend (who is a boy) because he didn't like the fact that we were so close. and him being a boy, he was NOT happy. i gave it all up for him, just too argue. after 4 months of going out, i ended it, because we argued and i lost the people who were closest too me. then, he started talking to another girl online, they met up later (when we got back together again) and i was VURIOUS!! i told him where too stick it, and that i had had enough of him. i would never do anything to hurt him! and there he is, meeting up with girls that he met online. i never felt good enough for him. he is the type that everyone hates. my parents, little sister, brother, everyone hated him. but even though he was horrible.. i still loved him! i am in another relationship, and i am SUPER happy, i know now, not too give everything up, and this boy im with now knows that. he is amazing. i know i said that about the last one. but yeah, thing is, i can't help but feel jealous. his new girlfriend, (the one he met up with while we were together) has her facebook status about him all the time, and all the rest of it. and in a way i think it's just a way too annoy me, but then i can't help feel jealousy. im just a little confused.. i don't know weather i have feelings towards him? or what? or if i need to just have time too get over him, and finish with the one im with now? because it is TOTALLY unfair on him! any tips? thanks. :)
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (30 October 2010):
 I think it's a case of, even though you've moved on [right?] you still want your ex to miss you. A lot of people feel like this.
Why is your ex's girlfriend on your Facebook? Just delete her, and delete your ex, so that you can't see statuses that will make you jealous, and you won't be "checking up" on your ex. Out of sight, out of mind (hopefully). Then you can concentrate on your new relationship.
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