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writes: I have been seeing this guy for a while and he has never done anything to hurt me. I have found out that before he met me he was chatting with many girls online just to get "laid". He says that he was a different person, but he would not do this again. However, he still has the numbers to the girls in his phone and still has their e-mail addresses in his computer. This really bothers me and I have asked him to remove these items because if he has changed and if he is not planning to contact them again there is no use in having them. He says that I am insecure and that I need to trust him. This is not the first time in my life that this has happened. I admitt that I am insecure and I am jealous. I have tried to overcome these deamons, but they are still here starting problems in yet another relationship. I am so afriad that I am going to get hurt that I dont let him have any space. I dont like it when he talks to other girls and I am not as happy as I should be. I really love this guy and I don't want to loose him, he has managed to put up with me and my "insecurities" but we don't know how to fix this problem. I no longer want to be like this, but how do I stop?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):
If hes genuinely changed, he will remove the numbers and email addresses from his computer. I think that this is the least he could do and if he wont do even that for you then you should not trust him.
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