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writes:hey all, kinda puzzled looking for some help please..well in January I have sex well to put it nicely 2 pumps and a squrt with no contraception(silly I know)anyway... got my period at the end of January on my usual date then the end of February nothing? I have taken 3 test and all say not pregnant, thing is 2 of them don't show the line on the second screen( the one that shows that it has worked)So,I feel as though I have put a bit of weight on and if I press my stomach it feels kind of hard last week I had really bad cramps in my lower abdominal and found myself feeling rather hot for a few days to, my head was sweating nothing else.Thing is I haven't had any tell tale signs to say that I am pregnant, no morning sickness, tiredness (more like restlessness as I cant get to sleep etc) my breasts aren't tender no cravings either.Was just wondering if anyone could tell me what they think! whether they think that I am pregnant or not? and if I am would it be to late to consider a termination?thank you for your time and would appreciate any response x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for you answers i have an appointment the second week in April so hopefully find out either way.
Really hope that am not as I am not ready would u say i am?
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reader, pandabird  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 It is generally thought that a foetus Cannot feel pain under 20 weeks of gestation.
Don't try and make it into a baby yet, it is not.
You shouldn't feel any shame in wanting an abortion, if that's what you want, and don't let other people frighten you into keeping it.
It's best to talk to your doctor about the procedure, you'll find they're all very supportive and will give you the facts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): You could be pregnant. I would check into it more.
The symptoms you feel could be all in your head cause you're expecting something, or they could be signs of being pregnant. You don't necessarily need all the other symptoms to be pregnant. Sorry i can't be of much more help!!
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Info on abortion and the baby itself:
At six weeks, your baby has a heartbeat. You cannot get a surgical abortion before about 8 weeks. (Before that, if soon after finding out you're pregnant, you can take a pill.) At that time, your baby’s eyelids have begun forming and hair appears. By the ninth and tenth weeks the preborn child sucks her thumb, turns somersaults, jumps, can squint to close out light, frown, swallow, and move her tongue.
In the first twelve weeks, suction abortions are performed. This procedure involves breaking the fetus up into small pieces that are then vacuumed into a small tube. At twelve weeks, this "fetus" has a heart beat, can cry, and it can definitely feel pain.
-At sixteen weeks, salt poisoning is performed. The doctor injects a strong saline solution into the baby's sac, causing the child to dry up. Within 24 hours, the mother goes into labor, and often, if the child is born alive, it is neglected and left to die. Rarely a child will miraculously survive and be given up for adoption.
-At eighteen weeks, dilation and evacuation are performed. This procedure uses forceps to twist and tear the child's bones until it is totally dismembered.
-At six months, a time when many premature children are born and able to survive, the woman can have a Caesarean Section. Only, instead of gently removing the baby from the womb and bringing it into the world, the doctors cut the umbilical chord while the baby is still in the womb, causing it to suffocate.
-Around thirty-two weeks, the child begins to dream, and from this point to birth, a woman can have a partial-birth abortion. In this method of abortion, the baby is pulled out of the birth canal feet first except for its head. The doctor jams scissors into the baby's skull, opens them, and the child's brains are then sucked out.
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reader, pandabird +, writes (23 March 2010):
I'd go straight to the doctors and they'll give you a test there for free, and you'll know for sure.
If you are, it's not too late for termination, you can go up to 5 months before it becomes illegal.
The sooner you sort it the better really.
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