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writes:I'm 30 year old female and have slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks.I'm wondering if I have problem or if is this something I should just feel content about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): The question you have to answer, for any feedback to be useful, is "Why have you slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks?"
Not just some blithe answer like "because it was fun", but the deeper reasons for it.
Until you know that, you don't know what the problem is.
More likely than not you are having emotional problems, "why" is a big question.
Each time you give yourself and answer to "why", as the question again. I know people who have had sex with more than one guy on the same day, total strangers, the answer to "why" when they really finally answered that question usually drives them pretty crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Yeah, everything is all right as long as long as you don't plan on getting into a long term relationship with someone who actually values sexual intimacy and wants to share something special. I'll apologize in advance if my view doesn't jive with the mainstream answer on here. If you thought it was fine then frankly you wouldn't be asking it here and don't think because you've got a few people to somehow legitimize your actions is actually going to make you feel better about it. You've just reduced sex to simply another animalistic function not mention exposing yourself to who knows what type of STDs etc., regardless of what precautions you have taken. Further adding to your risks, I would hazard to guess that if you're that promiscuous then you barely know these people, risking your health that much more.
Here's some advice...learn how to masturbate and/or practice it more.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Nothing wrong. As long as you do it safely and not hurting yoself on the process.have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): It's only a problem if you feel it is. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you're not hurting anyone and most importantly not hurting yourself. Other than that, do whatever you like and enjoy yourself.
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reader, Sex_counsellor +, writes (19 December 2010):
 As long as you are having safe sex and you both are only wanting sex then there is nothing wrong with it. Casual sex will eventually become unfulfilling and you will want something more at some point. Think about long term plans.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 December 2010):
So long as you're having safe sex, and you don't feel there's anything wrong, I don't see a problem.
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