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writes:my cousin is 16,i am 18, n i got a crush on her,.what do i do? i have some outher cousins i have crushs on too.the outhers are,17yr old.and 19yrs old.i just dont know who to talk to about this
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): I have a crush on my cousin too. It's so hard isn't it?! I think you should just try to find someone else and if that dosen't work you could tell her. If she is grosed out by the idea well you have your ansewr. If she feels the same you could try to have a relationship. It's worth a try.
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reader, Aunty Lin  +, writes (29 January 2007):
It's normal to experience feelings towards girls at your age, especially if you come into frequent contact with your cousins.
The best thing for you to do would be to start meeting other girls, who you can get along with. Although it is not necessary for you to ignore your cousins it is better if you limit the time you spend around them.
Make sure that whatever happens you DON'T act on these feelings because it is illegal and more importantly immoral to be gettin wit your cousins.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 i dont know if you are serious or just playing about. anyway i dont know how are you related to those cousins in my culture you can only date very long distance cousins as long as he or she is not from your mother's side as it is considered taboo they believe a child gets blood from the mother so if you are of same blood you cant marry each other. 1st cousins and 2nd cousins its a no go area unless you are from the royal family and an heir to the throne you can marry them to keep the throne in the family, so i dont know what does your culture say about this.
i also think you must learn to stop this crush business towards your family is not healthy.
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