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Can too much be a bad thing?

Q.   Hello, So I'm over the "is my penis size to small or, how do i know if its the right size" I have a much more inportant matter at hand... So here is the story, I'v been with my new girlfriend for about a year not and we have been having sex(...

A.   19 October 2011: There is the problem though, she likes when it is all the way in and when its fast/hard thrusts, and for her rough is a bit of pain( its what she likes i guess and im fine with that) but she said she has never had/seen some one with my size and she ... (read in full...)

Can too much be a bad thing?

Q.   Hello, So I'm over the "is my penis size to small or, how do i know if its the right size" I have a much more inportant matter at hand... So here is the story, I'v been with my new girlfriend for about a year not and we have been having sex(...

A.   19 October 2011: There is the problem though, she likes when it is all the way in and when its fast/hard thrusts, and for her rough is a bit of pain( its what she likes i guess and im fine with that) but she said she has never had/seen some one with my size and she ... (read in full...)

I feel horrible about masturbation. Is it wrong to do every day?

Q.   So i'm 18 years old and i masturbate often. It ranges from 2 times a day every day to 3. I can't help but feel that i'm destroying my life every time i masturbate. I've been trying to reduce the amount of time i masturbate and to no avail, nothing. ...

A.   17 April 2011: Masterbating is 100% normal, you'v got nothing to worry about "destroying your self" sex/masterbating is an form of releaving stress, also docters will tell you that for a male its recamended, to much build up could hurt they say. but men and wo... (read in full...)

He broke up with me because he was depressed. How can I get him back?

Q.   I cant think straight....my ex bf is beginning to consume my every thought. He broke up with me because he is depressed, he managed to go to a stage where he had no feelings whatsoever but one day realised that the number one problem was that...

A.   17 April 2011: School can bring on alot of stress, and some people take stress diffrently and thats fine, but I dont think that some one should leave some one from being behind in school ether... When your withsome one you should show suport and it seem's like y... (read in full...)

He broke up with me because he was depressed. How can I get him back?

Q.   I cant think straight....my ex bf is beginning to consume my every thought. He broke up with me because he is depressed, he managed to go to a stage where he had no feelings whatsoever but one day realised that the number one problem was that...

A.   17 April 2011: School can bring on alot of stress, and some people take stress diffrently and thats fine, but I dont think that some one should leave some one from being behind in school ether... When your withsome one you should show suport and it seem's like y... (read in full...)

I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!

Q.   Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...

A.   3 February 2011: 100% aggre with df30, Your way too young and i know you dont want people telling you that but he is 18. and your only 14. for one you can get in into some crap with the law if they ever found out, 2ed he shouldn't have lead you on to the point you ... (read in full...)

16 years and our sex life is rare now! What gives?

Q.   I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently ...

A.   3 February 2011: Hey, Most men are more "up-beat" in there younger age. but as time gose on men seem to lose the intrest in large amount of sex. we dont really understand why this is but men are more aggresive at a young age and as time gose by they turn more in to ... (read in full...)

I was good to him, so why did he feel the need to do this?

Q.   So I have dated this guy for about a month and hade to break up with him because it was just not going to work out. But he has left me feeling realy bad about myself. See the first weeks I started to get to know him he realy seemed nice and ...

A.   25 September 2010: Hey! I wouldn't feel bad about yoru self if you truly felt you where doing everything right and nothing wrong to hurt him in anyway, and by the way he seem's he's not reaady for just one person and dont want to settle for one =[ its a bad habit to... (read in full...)

Who should I choose?! The new guy or the ex?

Q.   Long story short, I dated this guy for a year and a half he was my first love and we had a great relationship in the start. I devoted all my time to him and did everything i possibly could to make him happy. He started to treat me like crap and ...

A.   17 September 2010: Hey! RUN as as fast as you can from this ex of your! dont even think about takgin him back this guy is a player and is only going to want what he dont have, dont even think about this old guy and bing afrade of being alone you said so your self your... (read in full...)

How do I play the player?

Q.   How do you get a guy back for playing games with you for months and leading you on... and then he all of a sudden stops seeing you and talking to you?... I want to get him back because I see him out all the time and i deleted him from my phone... ...

A.   17 September 2010: sarahrose20 is completly right, this guy thinks he can have you when ever and knows you thinking about him just drop him like a rock and move on when he seen that he no longer has what he tough he did, he is going to try again, but NEVER take h... (read in full...)

The rumors say we are dating but we aren't, but I'd like to be!

Q.   i like a guy who is my good friend... we both go home together after schoool. So we talk about lots of stuffs and then he said me that in school lots of friends tease us saying you both( i and he) should be couple.. And in school there is all rumour ...

A.   17 September 2010: Hey! You dont know how he feels about you? have you ever tryed flirting with him? if hat topic comes up again ask him(in a flirting maner) how he feel about people thinking you guy's are dating and ask him if he mind's if people think you tw... (read in full...)

I'm no good at asking guys out

Q.   Hi, I've been flirting with this bloke at work whose really gorgeous and easy to talk to, but it hasn't actually gone beyond flirting. Although the other day, we sort of arranged a night out between us next week. Not sure if it's a date or what. W...

A.   17 September 2010: Hey! How long have you known each other? that can play a big role on how thing will go, you just moved in so im guess it's a new thing. Don't worry about asking him out, just let time take its corse if things work it they will =] dont want to ... (read in full...)

Why does my husband only last a minute or two?

Q.   My husband has always had a problem with sex. He very seldom wants to have sex and when we do, it only last about a minute or two. We have no financial worries that could be depressing him and we get along great! We only argue whenever I bring up ...

A.   17 September 2010: Have you Tryed Role play, and teaseing? Men are all about touch and what they can and Can not have we are verry simple when it comes to sex most of the time =P have you tryed to take charge or get him to go for it? and are you only have sex on down ... (read in full...)

I want to love her without being disgusted at her past and where she has been.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now however we have known each other and been close for 3 years. She has had 4 claimed sexual partners including me, I have had 3. Were both 23. She had sexual relations with her much older ...

A.   2 August 2010: For one you guys are buth 23, i would have to say move on :( i know you may have feelings for her but if you are worryed about something then it is normaly best to stay away from worrys at the start of a relasonship it just ends poorly it would save ... (read in full...)

How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?

Q.   How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?...

A.   2 August 2010: Sex is an amazing thing, there is alot of feeling and love that can be apart of sex, and i think that you SHOULD care a lot or love them befor you start having sex, alot of people dont really listen to that fact, that caring for a person that your ... (read in full...)

Nothing Below the Belt: Is He Gay?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy off and on for almost six years. He has NEVER touched me below the waist. He seems to really like my breasts and loves me to touch him and kiss him all over, of course. I guess the main reason I continue to see him ...

A.   7 July 2010: Form a male point I think that it maybe time to move on :( I have never seen or heard of a man not liking that part of the body(stright man). Apart of a relasonship is the Love life, and it seems that you may not have it, or it is a one way thin... (read in full...)

I fell in love with him after all his flirting but he has a girlfriend, how do I get over him?

Q.   Hello, I have a really big problem with a boy.br Well I think I love him. All the winter , he was like ignoring me and we were just known. In the summer lessons suddenly he came to me, asked me for my msn and was talking to me all the time. We ...

A.   6 July 2010: Thats good that you asked if anythign is going on with him and his girlfriend, but you dont want to start with a guy that is going through a brake up, i know you are seeing a good side of him but what he is doing is really bad, like i said befor, ... (read in full...)

I fell in love with him after all his flirting but he has a girlfriend, how do I get over him?

Q.   Hello, I have a really big problem with a boy.br Well I think I love him. All the winter , he was like ignoring me and we were just known. In the summer lessons suddenly he came to me, asked me for my msn and was talking to me all the time. We ...

A.   6 July 2010: AVOID him, one. he has a girlfriend(not your falt) 2ed for a guy to flirt and wish for another girl as he is datting is a really bad sign! think about it, what if that was you and your boyfriend was spending all this time with another girl and ... (read in full...)

Both men love me and know I deeply love both of them. I am so confused!

Q.   Long story semi-short. I am in love with 2 men. The first I lived with 4 years and while it was a wonderful relationship filled with love, he was not ready to get married like I wanted and needed. I moved out and purchased my own home and we keep ...

A.   6 July 2010: Thats a really hard one, But the man you where first with i think is the better choice, you have been with him the longest and know him better, what your feeling for this new handom,fit man is new lust it happens to the best of us after we leave ... (read in full...)

How to get over the past in a relationship?

Q.   This is a bit of a long story, so I'll try to make it short. I have an amazing boyfriend. He treats me like a queen and would do anything to make me happy. I see in him the man I want to marry and the man who I want to father my future children....

A.   6 July 2010: Dont be a silly girl :), you said so your self he is a good guy and that your lucky to have him, the best part is that he has kept his word and moved slow with you insted of jumping right in becuase he know's there is more to life then just a girl ... (read in full...)

I love my best friend... she's my friend's girlfriend :(

Q.   hmmmph... here's to start my story, we've been best friends for 7 years... and in that 7 years i knew i love her... she knows about it already... well, here's the unlucky part, she has this boyfriend, they've been together for 3 years already... her ...

A.   6 July 2010: user Smile(: is 100% right man, she wants the best of bouth worlds, a guys we wants to show off and a guy that maybe too good for her, if she was any kind of friend then she would treat you better, and if she knows how you feel find out how she ... (read in full...)

What do you find is the best way to make sex really romantic, passionate and emotional?

Q.   I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most ...

A.   6 July 2010: I would have to say the person you are having sex with, if it's some one you care about alot on an emotional level then i find it helps the lust, and the fact that of you have some one you really care for and are in an open relasonship, then you and ... (read in full...)

What do you find is the best way to make sex really romantic, passionate and emotional?

Q.   I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most ...

A.   6 July 2010: I would have to say the person you are having sex with, if it's some one you care about alot on an emotional level then i find it helps the lust, and the fact that of you have some one you really care for and are in an open relasonship, then you and ... (read in full...)

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