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female
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30-35,
*intnoangel
writes:i've been played one too many times by one too many guys. i guess i'm an easy target because i've never been in love, but i want to be, so anything any guys say to me i automatically believe to be the truth, but is actually just "him" trying to have his way with me. is there any sure fire way to be able to tell if your being "played" or if the guy is actually genuine?there's this one guy, and i REALLY like him, he hasn't made any moves on my yet, but i want him too. only thing is, he has somewhat of a rep. for not committing. over the past year he's had a couple of girls that he hangs out with, makes out with, and g*d knows what else, but it's never anything more than that. they never "date"... it's more or less just friends with benifits. is he a player? does he have commitment issues? maybe he's just not into them, and all it is is mutal "friends with benifits"... any advice will help, thanks in advance =]xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): ive been in a situation like that . the gu was so sweet but turns out he used the same lines on every girl he liked! i think you shouldnt go for him. honestly what makes you think he wont do to you what hes done to other girls? and id advise you not to fall in love with him if he only does that friends with benefits crap. you want love not lust right? its up to you but id say find someone better. hope this helped..
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