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writes:I'm in a relationship of over a year, which has been one of the best things that have happened to me. He's my lover, my best friend, my partner. Together we have a blast- whether we're stuck at home making dinner, or out floating down a river in a canoe. Long story short, it is great.Lately though, I have noticed myself feeling something that has never been a problem for me. I've become a jealous FREAK. That had never been a problem for me, so it feels weird. I get jealous over ANYTHING and I realize it's ridiculous! For example, a little 15 year old gal added him in facebook to flirt. He simply accepted the request but does not reply to any of her postings. The simple fact that she was doing that bothered me to no end though! Although it's ridiculous for him to even think twice about going after her, I got mad jealous over the fact that she was trying to flirt with my guy.Even though I have these jealous feelings, I never show them. I never mention anything about them or keep him from doing things he loves because of them.I just want to know, is it normal? I don't like how possessive it makes me feel!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Instead of becoming jelous over these things you should look at it from a different angle. You should be glad that there are other girls interested in your man and be thankful that you got him and they didnt. As long as you trust him that is all that should matter. Hopefully these pangs of jelousy will disappear. Obviously there is something inside of you that has changed, has anything happened for you to doubt your future with your boyfriend. You are obviously feeling unsure about something. Try and think what may have triggered these feelings and work from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): If I added 15 year old girl to my Facebook I would be seriously worried about myself and question my morals.
Is it to satisfy his ego? It would give me the creeps for sure if I were you
Is there a reason why any adult man would add a flirtatious young girl?
I really hope you are going to tell us he deleted her immediately
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reader, 1989BABY +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Jealousy is a human emotion, I'd be more frightened if I didn't have those feelings. Really you want to defend whats yours. I am the jealous type i used to say I wasn't because I was ashamed but i take full credit for it now. Its ok! just don't let it get out of hand to where you ruin the relationship over it. Also let him know how you feel don't keep it all inside
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