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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:my ex and i dated for 2 years in high school and about 2 years on and off at college (we went to different colleges) and decided that it was too hard to have a long distance relationship and broke it off. We fought a lot, but untimately it was the distance that seperated, i know my feelings never died for him even though i've had several relationships since then (its been over two years ago). He dated one of his friends from high school who also went to the same college as him. we have kept in touch, somewhat...mainly just hooking up and then telling each other we can't hook up...that whole game. I lost my virginity to him so it's very hard for me to not "relive the memory" when were both in our hometown. he has broken up with his girlfriend because they do not have a lot in common and i know his friends have told him im much better for him. My friends and i were on vacation at the beach and him and his friends came to visit. He tried to have sex with me the but i said no..but the second night we were drinking a lot and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning i felt awful because he had cheated on his girlfriend with me. After that happened he broke up with her and this time at home he tried again, i said no...but the next time we hung out it was different. it was exactly like we were dating...when he is usually stand offish and ignores me a lot he was a gentlemen, picked me up, bought me food and drinks..even his friends pointed out how he was acting differently. So we hooked up, he told me he still loves me and misses me and even made a comment about looking for a wife. we have the same group of friends and they say he talks about how he is in love with his old girlfriend. How do i know if he is being sincere to me? We can't date because the distance doesn't work for us and we are both still in college and i am moving out of the country for the summer. his other gf is the marrying type...very "take home" type, while his parents do not like me because i am more hippie majoring in art (which they don't deem a "real" subject) and i party with him. Does he still love me, or does he really love his girlfriend. I still love him but i don't want to talk to him if he isn't being sincere to me.
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reader, griffingirl +, writes (26 May 2009):
There's only one thing to do: ASK HIM!!
Then read lis eyes when he is telling you the answer.
Human nature is to look down and to the left when you are lying. Or just looking away from you.
There's not much to do.
Sorry girl.
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