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writes: hi. i'm the type who has irregular periods. my last last period was on may 3. this month, it was june 11. but it lasted only around 3-4 days. my other periods usually last longer (5-7 days). my boyfriend and i fooled around on june 7 but he didn't put his thing inside me. it was just there, but i'm still worried about contact and precum. lately i've been feeling nauseated a lot plus there's this weird taste in my mouth. it disappeared for a while but now it's back. i've also noticed that my veins are more visible everywhere. i have been exercising a lot lately. i'm really confused. i took several tests already both at the clinic and at home (probably a week or 2 weeks ago) but they came out neg. did i take them too early or is this all in my head?please... i need someone to talk 2 about this. i'm freaking out. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): you clearly are worried about this situation,do another test in a few weeks, but remember that your not the only one to blame your boyfriend also needs to ensure he wears a condom.just rember to be carefull next time a baby is a big comitment.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 You're sort of vague about whether his penis was in contact with your vagina. You only say it was "just there", so it's difficult to give you much to go on.
Please do note that pre-cum contains millions of sperm, though not as much as normal semen. It's possible for you to get pregnant even if he only put it in partway, and even if he didn't come. Not as likely as it would be with full sex, but the world is full of people born as a result of "but it wasn't even in!"
So DON'T take chances any more. If you're not responsible enough to get and use contraception, you're *not ready* to be fooling around with your boyfriend. Full stop. Get condoms. Use them. Insist that he have them on. Otherwise you *will* end up pregnant. It's simple.
As to whether you're pregnant now, it's perfectly normal for your periods to be all over the place at 14. Don't worry about that; they'll be settling down for a couple of years. That's one of the reasons it's SO important to use condoms if you're going to play sex games with your boyfriend: you can't predict any "safe" time because your periods aren't in a set cycle.
If both the pregnancy tests you've had are negative, then I'd wait another 2 weeks and have another at the clinic, just to be positively sure. If that one's clear, it should be OK. If your last period was only 3 weeks ago, you wouldn't be showing any noticable signs of pregnancy yet, so the "weird taste" etc are probably something else.
Take this as a sign that you've been acting recklessly. Please start taking responsibility for your actions now. Don't fool around any more without having condoms handy. You may even be able to get them free at the clinic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): WOOOW girl slow down! for 1 you cant get pregnant unless sperm is present. 2nd the more you worrie about it the more messed up you period will be. You need to breath and relax! TRUST ME! this same situation happend to me and my girl friend and i talk to some1 on this help line and when my g/f relaxed her period came. plz relax and wait a little wile and if it still dosent come soon go to the docters and have yourself checked! good luck!
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