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writes:I recently found a guy I had dated 20years ago again and we started talking and texting each other every day for a week then went out on a date and all the feelings I had for him back then were still there. The date was great and he asked me out on a second date but its now been three weeks and I have not heard from him so I dont know what to think. I dot think he is ignoring me or anything like that because he is one of those good guys that dont come along everyday. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): REad the book "He's just not that into you" and 'Why men marry bitches'. It'll clear things up for you babe...
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reader, holliegeorgie.x  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I've been in this situation, you sit and think about all the reasons he didn't get in contact. He's been sent on a business trip, a argent matter has happened, he could have been involved in an accent, he could be ill, lost his phone, broken his laptop. Many more things run through your head. You like this guy and your looking for something perfect so you ignore the reasons why he could be so wrong when in fact you need to face them first. Don't rely on one person or be fooled by there act. Maybe he's just not into you, the sooner you move on the better. Be hard to get if he gets in contact you be the distant one make him chase you. Keep dating don't stick to this one guy. Some people just can't be trusted. Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 August 2010):
I'm sorry to say this, but at 3 weeks he should have been in contact if he was interested. You could try ringing him, but like I say, at three weeks and after he asked you out on a second date, I'd say that he'd moved on. An interested guy will usually call in 3-5 days.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 August 2010):
 You give the guy 3 days to call you after the first date, not 3 weeks! Sorry but this tells you the date went ok but he's just not that into you or he's met someone else. He mentioned a second date as only to sound nice, but it's also misleading. Think about it if he was into you, he already would have called.
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