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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:In 6th grade, i started to like this guy. let's call him tyler. anyways, so at the end of the year, i began to like tyler and there were rumors going around he liked me too. he asked me out in one of the few classes we had together, and i said yes. the next day, he broke up with me, over text. this wouldn't have been so bad, if that day wasn't my birthday. he really hurt me, but eventually i got over it. the next year, he was again in a few of my classes, and i started to like him again. tyler asked out this girl "ally" and they dated for almost three months, this made me suffer, i was in agony the whole time. once they broke up, i was so happy. ally and me weren't that close, but we were friends. everyone knew i liked tyler, and people thought he liked me too. a couple weeks after his break up with ally, rumors started all around the school that he was going to ask me out. he did, and i said yes. we dated for a month, but never kissed. just hugged. i had never kissed anyone then, so i was not going to make the first move. anyways, he broke up with me, over text again, and said he wanted to be single. a week later, he asked out this girl "jessica" . they went out for a couple weeks, and then broke up. then, about a month later, he said he was moving. on his last day, we hugged, and i cried for days over him. we didn't talk very often for about a month, but i saw him at my bat mitzvah party two months later. we had a blast, and he gave me a really expensive necklace. we hugged like 10 times, and that was it. we now chat frequently on facebook, but recently i felt like something is off. he knows i like him, and he says he likes me. but he never chats me first, and i just can't seem to move on? will i ever? its been almost two years now. help? how can i move on when i love him so deeply?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 You are both very young. He obviously likes you. He is probably testing out different girls to see what he really wants because he can. Relationships that are in very early stages can be quite strange for anyone and he sounds like he isnt sure what to do or how to act with anyone. That will take time and maturity. Emotions get in the way when we are young. Just take a back seat and wait for him to make all the moves.
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