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It strikes me as odd that he's not contacting me.

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Question - (6 May 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I've got a big crush on this guy. Over the past couple of weeks, we've hung out together a couple of times - he's invited me over for a movie, we've gone to a concert together, and just hung out, and whenever I saw him, we always ended up being very affectionate.

Now, though, he hasn't invited me to do anything for about a week, and I'm the one initiating contact almost every time when we call or text. I get the feeling he likes me, since he's super, super friendly in person and always looks at me and smiles at me in class, and it's finals time, so I know he's super busy (I am too, for that matter), but it still strikes me as odd that I'm not getting contacted.

I'm not totally sure where to go from here - I'd love to just come out and tell him that I like him to get a handle on how he feels, but I don't know how to do that without making an awkward situation, and I don't want to bug him or look desperate by contacting him too much. I also don't know the guy super well, and my ex (granted, he's been acting psycho lately) insists that he's a player, so I don't really want to jump into anything without figuring out what's going on.

Any ideas?

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